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When Will Rogers Wept

Sadness Compassion Trouble

Source: my own Scriptural research

Contributed By: Rod Crowell | Date Posted: 2012-06-16

Scripture: Psalms 56:8

Author: Rod Crowell
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ILLUSTRATION

Will Rogers, America's favorite cowboy-comedian of the 1930s, was adept at making others laugh.  But one day his friend Milton Berry, founder of a rehab center in Los Angeles for accident victims, saw Will Rogers weep as he ducked into a bathroom to release his pent-up sadness over the victims' disfigurements.  He sobbed like a child, then emerged from the rest room smiling and laughing as before.  He could not let the public see him weep lest his tears should spoil his humor.

APPLICATION

Christianity, unlike Stoicism, is marked by compassion and willingness to enter into the pain of another's suffering.  Jesus was unafraid to let his own tears show over the death of his friend Lazarus (John 11:35).  Our tears are precious to God, for He numbers them just as surely as the hairs on our heads.  

 

"You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book" (Psalm 56:8).

 

Blue Monday

Fact or Fiction? Depression Sadness

Source: msnbc.com 1/12/11

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Contributed By: Illustration Exchange | Date Posted: 2011-01-25

Scripture: Acts 17:28

Author: Illustration Exchange
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ILLUSTRATION

Fact or Fiction?  The last Monday in January is the saddest day of the year.
The answer?  A little of both.

Some six years ago a travel company, Sky Travel, paid a supposed British research psychologist, Cliff Arnall, to devise a formula for calculating the saddest day of the year.  According to an MSNBC report, the equation (based on personal interviews and variables like the rate of absenteeism from work and personal debt) is "broken down into seven variables: (W) weather, (D) debt, (d) monthly salary, (T) time since Christmas, (Q) time since failed quit attempt, (M) low motivational levels and (NA) the need to take action."

So what was the answer to the equation?  Blue Monday--the last Monday in January. A combination of bad weather, lack of sunlight, being shut in, accumulated debt from Christmas and New Years all work together to leave us feeling less than hopeful and energetic.


Is it good science?  That's debatable according to many in the field.  The author of the equation was not a staff research scientist, nor even a Psychology professor, but merely a part-time tutor at an esteemed UK university.  But it is nevertheless generally agreed that for many this is not a "happy" time of year. 

APPLICATION

As Blue Monday rolls around this year, we would do well to engage in a little self-examination.  Upon what list of criteria do we base our happiness? Our contentedness?  Without Christ in the equation, a beautiful, sunny day enjoyed in perfect health and wealth is far sadder than any dreary day spent in the light of hope in Christ.

Jesus is the real answer to our search for happiness. Every day without Him is a sad day.  

“For in Him we live and move and have our being” (Acts 17:28a).

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Crying is Healthy and Faithful

Grief Emotions Spiritual Health

Source: Dr. Joseph Stern, M.D.

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Contributed By: Marcelle Smith | Date Posted: 2025-11-16

Scripture: Matthew 5:4 ; John 11:35

Author: Marcelle Smith
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ILLUSTRATION

Many people tend to fight the onset of tears, when crying is in fact a natural and beneficial response to several common emotions such as grief, sadness, dejection, and even joy. Tears are triggered by our emotions, but they are also a practical and protective reaction from the body. We produce three main types of tears.

Basal tears are in our eyes all day. Basal tears are functional, lubricating tears that help improve our vision, focus, and fight against infection. A protein called lysozyme is present in basal tears. This protein protects against viruses, bacteria, and fungi. Basal tears contain oil, mucus, salt, and water. The oil prevents the tears from evaporating and blinking spreads a layer of basal tears on the eye’s surface.

Reflex tears are our eyewash tears. These are triggered by environmental irritants such as dust, smoke, and wind. These tears flush out any irritating material for our eyes. These are also the tears produced when we cut an onion.

Emotional tears flood our eyes in response to strong emotions and are similar to basal tears in chemical makeup but also contain stress hormones and natural pain relievers.

Crying has a number of other proven benefits as well. Crying has a self-soothing effect which helps us to calm ourselves, regulate our emotions, and return us to a more neutral emotional state within a certain period of time. Deep belly breaths from crying and sobbing regulate our heart rate, blood pressure, and breathing - all of which aids in recovering from stress.

Crying can cause our body to produce hormones that make us feel better. We release oxycontin and endorphins after we cry, which can help reduce stress, relieve pain, and lift our mood. In other words, having a good cry can improve our mood after we cry. 

Crying is also a way the body rids itself of chemicals that are released in the body to help us cope during times of stress, but can have negative impacts when not processed out of the body. So, if we try to push back the tears or feel shame when we cry, it can have the opposite effect, inducing anxiety, depression, upset stomach, and heart-associated issues.

Crying is also an attachment behavior. Crying signals to others that we need help and support. Most obviously associated with infants and small children, research suggests that crying serves the same functions in adults, facilitating deeper social connections and community support.

APPLICATION

That means it is healthy and faithful to embrace what we feel, go through the valley with the Lord, cry the tears, and trust in the promise that we will be blessed on the other side of what brings the tears.

"You have kept count of my tossings; put my tears in your bottle. Are they not in your book?" (Psalm 56:8, ESV).

"Those who sow in tears shall reap with shouts of joy!" (Psalm 126:5, ESV).

"A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance" (Ecclesiastes 3:4, ESV).

"For godly grief produces a repentance that leads to salvation without regret, whereas worldly grief produces death" (2 Corinthians, 7:2, ESV).

"For you have delivered my soul from death, my eyes from tears, my feet from stumbling" (Psalm 116:8, ESV).

 

This Too Shall Pass

Wisdom Depression Perspective

Contributed By: Illustration Exchange | Date Posted: 2024-05-14

Scripture: 2 Corinthians 4:18

Author: Illustration Exchange
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HELP!

God's Deliverance Loneliness Desperation

Contributed By: Illustration Exchange | Date Posted: 2024-04-12

Scripture: 1 Peter 3:12 ; Psalms 40:13

Author: Illustration Exchange
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Stand Down

Desperation God's Deliverance Submission

Contributed By: Kikeh Anthony | Date Posted: 2024-02-28

Scripture: 1 Thessalonians 5:19 ; James 4:7

Author: Kikeh Anthony
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All Murder and Violence and No Donuts

Good Friday Easter Joy

Contributed By: Vince Putnam | Date Posted: 2023-01-22

Scripture: Mark 15: ; Matthew 27:

Author: Vince Putnam
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Jesus Calls Us to Desire More

Happiness Beatitudes Dreams

Contributed By: Illustration Exchange | Date Posted: 2022-09-16

Author: Mitchell Dillon
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The Man In The Iron Mask

Affliction Spiritual Growth Perspective

Contributed By: Shane Waldron | Date Posted: 2020-12-15

Scripture: Isaiah 46:10 ; Isaiah 48:3

Author: Shane Waldron
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Squeeze More Joy Out of Every Day

Joy Circumstances Happiness

Contributed By: Charles Krieg | Date Posted: 2018-01-24

Scripture: John 15:11

Author: Charles Krieg
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