Crutches are an extremely helpful medical device if you are taken lame by either injury or surgical intervention. The premise is simple. Pop them under your arms and let them bear your wait so that you can stand and ambulate.
Of course, they’ve become quite the metaphor for “weak” people needing to lean on something or someone to be able to get along in life.
The last words you want to hear is someone telling you that you are leaning on a crutch in life. They might as well say, “Man, what’s wrong with you? You’re so weak and impotent. Grow up and stand on your own two feet.”
If you are a Christian, you’re probably no stranger to someone accusing you of leaning on your faith as a crutch.
To that point, author/speaker Mark Cahill has this to say:
Next time you hear someone say that Christianity is just a crutch for weak people say, "Yes, it is. I've had a bad fall into sin and I'm crippled. Without Jesus, I can do nothing!!"
"... for without me ye can do nothing" (John 15:5, NIV).
Own your crutch! Wear it like a badge of honor. Place your whole weight squarely on Jesus. Yoke yourself to Him, and He will bear your obligation, your sin, your burden. “For my yoke is easy and my burden is light” (Matthew 11:30, NIV).
Esra Gurkan, for MAILONLINE, writes:
Job interviews are an unpleasant chore that we all need to go through to get the role of our dreams. It's easy enough to talk about why you want the job and why you're the best person to do it. But there is one question that everyone dreads and is most likely to trip us all up: What's your biggest weakness?
... A job-hunter known as humansof took to Reddit to pose the horrible question to see how other people had answered and was soon inundated with responses. Among the 1,600 comments were people's own solutions ...
One Redditer answered the dreaded question by saying that they take failure a bit too hard sometimes. Another user, Bumpkinsworth, expanded on that, writing, "You can elaborate as to how that pushes you to work harder so that you won't make the same mistake twice."
Someone else advised using humor, suggesting you could remain silent and then pull a card from your pocket that reads, "I over prepare." And yet another Redditer sarcastically suggested the following reply: “People say I can be condescending. That's when you 'talk down' to people.”
Gurkan continues:
Sefromans replied to the thread with some useful advice: 'Saying something behavioral based like "I don't work well with people" or "I'm soft spoken" is like shooting yourself.
'Give a skills based "weakness" that you can take action to improve upon in the near future.
'Something like "I'm not too familiar with excel at the moment, but I'm planning on taking classes this coming month.” Make sure you provide a remedy to the weakness.'
We dread this question because an honest answer is likely to torpedo any hopes of getting the job. Weaknesses don't play well in our world. To succeed, it's important to appear strong, capable and in control.
However, the biggest interview any of us will ever face doesn't come in this lifetime, but rather when we stand before God in the next. God won't need to ask, “What is your greatest weakness?” He already knows the answer. It's the sin the has caused a separation in our relationship with Him.
We might impress the world with a clever answer that serves to hide our weaknesses, but God isn't so easily fooled. But here's the good news: We don't have to "make sure" we "provide a remedy" to our biggest weakness. God has already done that by sending His Son into the world to die for our sins.
That being so, all that's left for us to overcome our biggest weakness before God is to humbly put our trust in Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord.
“Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up” (James 4:10).
"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life" (John 3:16).
Stan Lee, the head of Marvel Comics changed the game for superheroes when he decided to make them flawed and have weaknesses instead of being God-like. People took to it because they could relate to them in a way they couldn't with Superman. A great article on Stan Lee describes this story.
From Moses striking the stone in anger, to David's tryst with Bathsheba, the Bible presents God's people as flawed individuals who trust in a flawless God. As such, they are examples with whom we can relate.
How about you? Are you humble about your flaws and shortcomings?
"That is why, for Christ's sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong" (2 Corinthians 12:10).