“‘Walk a little slower, Daddy,’ said a little child so small. I’m following in your footsteps and I don’t want to fall. Sometimes you steps are very fast, sometimes they’re hard to see; so walk a little slower Daddy, for you are lead me. Someday when I’m all grown up, you’re what I want to be, then I will have a little child who’ll want to follow me. And I would want to lead just right, and know that I was true; so walk a little slower, Daddy, for I must follow you!’” [Author unknown]
“Small boys become big men through the influence of big men who care about small boys.” [Author unknown]
"Any fool can be a Father, but it takes a real man to be a Daddy!" [Unknown]
"The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother." [Unknown]
"Fathers, be good to your daughters … You are the god and the weight of her world. So fathers, be good to your daughters. Daughters will love like you do. Girls become lovers who turn into mothers, so mothers, be good to your daughters, too." [Johan Mayer, singer-songwriter]
"He didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it." [Clarence Budington Kelland (1881 – 1964), an American fiction writer]
"My father used to play with my brother and me in the yard. Mother would come out and say, "You're tearing up the grass." "We're not raising grass," Dad would reply. "We're raising boys." [Harmon Killebrew (1936-2011), was an American professional baseball player]
"Fatherhood is pretending the present you love most is soap-on-a-rope." [Bill Cosby, American comedian and actor]
"A father carries pictures where his money used to be." [Unknown]
"When I was a boy of fourteen, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be twenty-one, I was astonished at how much he had learned in seven years." [Mark Twain (1835-1910), born Samuel Clemens, was an American author and humorist]
"Spread the diaper in the position of the diamond with you at bat. Then fold second base down to home and set the baby on the pitcher's mound. Put first base and third together, bring up home plate and pin the three together. Of course, in case of rain, you gotta call the game and start all over again." [Jimmy Piersal, American professional baseball player]
"By the time a man realizes that maybe his father was right, he usually has a son who thinks he's wrong." [Unknown]
"Small boys become big men through the influence of big men who care about small boys." [Unknown]
"A man never stands as tall as when he kneels to help a child." [Unknown]
"I watched a small man with thick calluses on both hands work fifteen and sixteen hours a day. I saw him once literally bleed from the bottoms of his feet, a man who came here uneducated, alone, unable to speak the language, who taught me all I needed to know about faith and hard work by the simple eloquence of his example." [Mario Cuomo, former governor of NY from 1983 to 1994]
"Be a dad. Don’t be "Mom’s Assistant".... Be a man.... Fathers have skills that they never use at home. You run a landscaping business and you can’t dress and feed a four-year-old? Take it on. Spend time with your kids.... It won’t take away your manhood, it will give it to you." [Louis C.K., Mexican-American comedian, screenwriter, producer, film director, actor, voice actor, and film editor]
"Every father should remember that one day his son will follow his example instead of his advice." [Unkonwn]
"By profession I am a soldier and take pride in that fact. But I am prouder--infinitely prouder--to be a father. A soldier destroys in order to build; the father only builds, never destroys." [Douglas MacArthur, (1880 – 1964), American five-star general and field marshal of the Philippine Army who was Chief of Staff of the United States Army during the 1930s and played a prominent role in the Pacific theater during World War II]
Many of the above quotes present their own points of application. They do not necessarily reflect the opinion of the editors of Illustration Exchange or Orthodox Christianity.
"Any fool can be a Father, but it takes a real man to be a Daddy!" [Unknown]
"The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother." [Unknown]
"Fathers, be good to your daughters … You are the god and the weight of her world. So fathers, be good to your daughters. Daughters will love like you do. Girls become lovers who turn into mothers, so mothers, be good to your daughters, too." [Johan Mayer, singer-songwriter]
"My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it." [Clarence Budington Kelland (1881–1964), an American fiction writer]
"My father used to play with my brother and me in the yard. Mother would come out and say, "You're tearing up the grass." "We're not raising grass," Dad would reply. "We're raising boys." [Harmon Killebrew (1936-2011), was an American professional baseball player.]
“Being a father is a choice. Staying true to fatherhood is a duty. [Joan Ambu (1980 - ) is a Cameroon born American writer and poet.]
“A truly rich man is one whose children run into his arms, even when his hands are empty.” [Unknown]
“Fatherhood is a vocation in God’s service, to be not held lightly or frivolously, but with the serious determination of serious men.” [Father Lawrence Lovasik (1913 - ) was a Catholic priest, missionary and author of more than thirty books on spiritual life and duty.]
“When you teach your son, you teach your son’s son.” [The Talmud]
“It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men.” [Frederick Douglass (1818 – 1895) was an African-American social reformer, writer, and statesman. After escaping from slavery, he became a leader of the abolitionist movement.]
“By the time a man realizes that maybe his father was right, he usually has a son who thinks he’s wrong.” [Charles Wadsworth, American clergyman]
“A father is neither an anchor to hold us back, nor a sail to take us there, but a guiding light whose love shows us the way.” [Unknown]
“One night a fatter overheard his son pray: Dear God, make me the kind of man my daddy is. Later that night, the father prayed, Dear God, make me the kind of man my son wants me to be.” [Unknown]
“It doesn’t matter who my father was; it matter who I remember he was.” [Ann Sexton (1928 – 1974) was an American poet, known for her highly personal, confessional verse.]
“Having kids doesn’t make you a father; raising them does.” [Unknown]
“My father used to play with my brother and me in the yard. Mother would come out and say, ‘You’re tearing up the grass.’ Then dad would reply, ‘We’re no raising grass. We’re raising boys.’” [Harmon Killebrew (1936 – 2011), nicknamed "The Killer" and "Hammerin' Harmon", was an American professional baseball first baseman, third baseman, and left fielder.]
“The father who would taste the expense office fatherhood must turn back from the plane office experience, take with him the fruits of his journey and begin again beside his child, marching step by step over the same old road.” [Angelo Patri (1876 – 1965) was an Italian-American author and educator.]
“There are three stages of a man’s life: He believes in Santa Claus; he doesn’t believe in Santa Claus; he IS Santa Claus.” [Unknown]
“Fatherhood is great because you can ruin someone from scratch.” [Jon Stewart (1962 - ) is an American comedian, writer, filmmaker, actor, media critic, and television host. He is the host of The Daily Show, a satirical news program that airs on Comedy Central.]
“Do I want to be a hero to my son? No. I would like to be a very real human being. That’s hard enough.” [Robert Downey Jr. (1965- ) is an American actor, producer most famous for his role as the superhero Ironman.]
“I believe that what we become depends on what our fathers teach us at odd moments, when they aren’t tying to teach us. We are formed by little scraps of wisdom.” [Umberto Eco (1932 - ) is an Italian semiotician, essayist, philosopher, literary critic, and novelist.]
“Why is it that you hardly ever see mothers throwing their children in the air? Fathers are special.” [Michael Josephson (1942 - ) is a former law professor and attorney who founded the nonprofit Joseph and Edna Josephson Institute of Ethics.]
Many of the above quotes provide their own points of application. They do not necessarily represent the views of Orthodox Christianity; neither do they necessarily represent the views of Illustration Exchange.
My father grew up in the Depression era in a leaky and cold house. He said, in winter months, he could sometimes have snow in his bedroom. The house was not well insulated, so the wind could bring a chill. Though the conditions were difficult, he never questioned the loved of his father.
One frigid night, my father woke up and was thirsty. He called out to his dad and asked him for some water. They did not have running water in the house, so my grandfather had to go outside in the cold to get a cup of water. My dad could hear the floor creaking as my grandfather stepped through the dark house. He heard the door open and the ice breaking as my grandfather got the water from a bucket that had frozen over.
As my grandfather brought the cup of water to my dad's bedside, my dad said he had never felt so loved as he did in that moment. His father had sacrificed his own comfort to satisfy my dad's thirst. What a great example of a father's love.
Our heavenly Father has done this for us. He knows what we need and He provides for us even better than our earthly fathers can.
But the greatest lesson is this. He has loved us to the point of His own personal sacrifice. Jesus left the comforts of heaven to come down to this dark world to satisfy our deepest thirst. He came so that we would never thirst again.
Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God and who it is that asks you for a drink, you would have asked him and he would have given you living water. ... whoever drinks the water I give them will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give them will become in them a spring of water welling up to eternal life" (John 4:11, 14, NIV).